Texting a girl can do great things for your relationship if you do it right. With that said, here are some important tips that you should definitely keep in mind the next time you want to text a girl that you’re in to. Firstly, you shouldn’t just prioritize that one girl’s number in your phonebook. Ideally, if you’re not very good with girls in general, you’ll tend to fall into a category that I’d like to call “needy”. When you show neediness, girls will not respond well to you and you’ll end up with nothing. To prevent yourself from falling into this state of mind, you should constantly text multiple girls at any one time.
Interacting with a girl will boost your confidence. Interacting with multiple girls at once will rid you of any neediness that you might be showing at all. Besides, practice makes perfect. If a girl responds favorably to some of your initial texts, you can simply use those for the next girl that you’re texting. Starting a text session with girls the correct way can give you a huge confidence boost in your texting conversation with a girl that you have a thing for. Here’s the right way to text girls without sounding too eager. You do not necessarily have to use unique words or phrases for each of your different texts with different girls. If a line works well, use it on all the other girls too and soon you’ll know exactly what you need to say to make a girl like you or feel turned on by you.
Additionally, it would help to have a fun and light attitude in all your texts. If you’re a funny person, that will help you substantially more. Women love guys who’re fun to be with because that trait is hard to come by. They’ll also automatically feel excited whenever you text them because they remember how fun it feels to talk to you. Of course, as comfortable as a girl might feel in texting you, you need to remember your primary goal here. Don’t just fall into the “friend” zone with a girl. You need to get close to her but in a romantic way. Being stuck in the friend zone with a girl will be a real challenge since it’s really hard to break out of that when a girl already establishes you merely as a friend.
To keep things spicy, you have to imply some sort of attraction that you have towards the girl. Let her know you like her. This doesn’t mean that you have to start flirting with her however. Flirting certainly helps but not at the initial stage of your relationship. If you still want to send her dirty messages, you could practice dirty talking to any of your friends who’re girls over text first. Always tell yourself that every text you send has to have a primary purpose when put together as a whole. Perhaps you could ask her out at the end of your text exchanges. If you feel that it’s too soon for that, at least let her know that you’re interested in her. You can do this through a variety of methods. One of the best approaches you can use would be to compliment her on how good she looks. Tell her she’s cute or you like the way she laughs.
People like being complimented on and this is especially true for girls. Keep your compliments far and few in between though so that she’ll appreciate them more than you actually do compliment her. With the right texts, you can make a girl like you just as easily as it would be if the two of you were to go out on a date. That’s the power of texting.